Top Secrets For All punjabi Couples by apnahumsafar.com

A perfect couple doesn’t fight, doesn’t argue, spends a lot of time together, is regarded as ideal by the society, and doesn’t exist! That is the truth. No relationship on earth is flawless. Furthermore, it is untrue that no couple can become perfect. A couple can become perfect by mutual respect, patience, and tons of love. By accepting each other’s flaws and appreciating for little things your partner does for you is like nurturing a garden. These small things keep away the weeds that harm the bond of love between partners. Almost every Punjabi matrimony site reveals some tips & secrets for a happy married life. Practicing them can bring positive changes in the life of a Punjabi couple for sure.

 

 

 

 

 

1. Respect Your Partner

The foremost step for making a Punjabi marriage successful is respecting the sweetheart. Individuals should never take their spouses for granted. Respecting him/her & reminding their importance in your life can enrich the relationship in several ways. Never step back in expressing gratitude to your partner. Take a pause from a hectic schedule to say ‘I Love You’ and see the relationship flourish.

2. Communicate A Lot

Lack of communication in a relationship plays the bad guy. Any Punjabi marriage can reach at the verge of a divorce if there’s a lack of communication. Listen to each other patiently and do not interrupt. Communicating with each other always helps in resolving problems a person is facing. Even while you both disagree at a point, it should be resolved by meeting in person instead of texting or over a call.

3. Don’t Be Clingy; Make Room for Separateness

Adoring your sweetheart is fine but being clingy can surely annoy him/her. It is healthy for a Punjabi bride/groom to have separate interests. For a happy married life, you should never force your partner to indulge in an activity just because you want him/her to do so. Refrain from clinging to the partner. Taking out some time for one’s own self is important to refresh the mind & body.

4. Honesty Is Essential

A Punjabi wedding cannot survive on the foundation of mistrust. At times, there are situations when your partner might not believe or does not want to hear. But, it is essential to speak the truth rather than shrouding it under a lie. The happiest couples are the ones that are honest with each other and do not hide anything.

5. Connect with families

Usually the bride is expected to set connection with the groom’s family but with the changing times it is now equally important for both partners to adjust and connect with each other’s family. Whether it is Punjabi marriage or any other wedding this is one of the most important secrets of ‘enjoying’ a happy married life. Communicating, caring and connecting with your spouse’s family lay foundation for a happy marriage.

The happiest Punjabi couples are those who see their spouse as the best friend, a person who is always by their side in every phase of life. By making these secrets as an integral part of the married life, any Punjabi wedding becomes successful. apnahumsafar.com is best matrimonial and matrimony website in Punjab and India. best marriage bureau in Punjab.

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HAPPY NAVRATRI

The nine day festival is reminiscent of red clad kanjak devis, boiled potato dishes, bhajan recitations in the form of maa jaagran or mata ki chownki, morning and evening durga aarti, devotional garbha dance and much more. Accompanied with the traditional rituals is a certain element of devotion and self-control exemplified in the temporary renunciation of tamsic food, alcohol and beverages. Not only does this hint at the acceptance of the inherent negativity in the above said substances and practices, but also a certain desire of positivity and goodwill which would arrive with the renunciation of tamsic food, alcohol and other “negative acts’. if you plan your child marriage or want to register for marriage or for any shubh mahurat then Navratri are the best time to do so..

The 9 day festival is symbolic of the victory of good over evil, right over wrong but the mere practice of rituals fail to mask the real evil in the society. This reality is quite evidently being depicted by the growing crime, violence, drug abuse & afflictions, epidemics, natural disasters and environmental degradation etc.

His Holiness Shri Ashutosh Maharaj ji often says that the root cause of every corrupt deed is the corrupt mind behind it. It is only through redirecting our thoughts towards the Divine that we can be fully awakened with the discretion of right and wrong, the good and the evil. It is only then that together we can create a true ‘Humane’ World devoid of social eclipses.

The worship of Maa Shakti emphasizes at the need to know and realize the true nature of Devi which is Shakti and is present in its elemental form within all of us but is lying dormant. Navratri is the time to awaken this dormant Shakti or cosmic feminine energy, the better half of Lord Shiva in His Ardhanareshwara Avatar.  Together Maa Shakti and Lord Shiva symbolize a unique state of balance,
which is called SANTULAN; the distortion of which in any form be it quantitative or qualitative, creates imbalance or “asantulan” in nature. Both are incomplete without each other and are present in equal but opposite natures.

Likewise in the case of Lord Rama and Maa Sita; Maa Sita is referred to as Bhakti - the cosmic feminine energy or divine feminine energy. And when talking about Laxmi-Narayan avatar; Narayan is the supreme consciousness and Laxmi is His better half – the incessant energy. Symbolically all the above-mentioned avtars of Gods and Goddesses signify the same fine balance of cosmic feminine and masculine energy.

Navratri signifies overcoming nine doors of delusions and reaching the tenth that is the ‘dasham dwar’ – the divine eye, the door to go within. This divine door can be entered only through divine knowledge – BrahmGyan bestowed through a perfect master of the time. And when one gets spiritually initiated, the real meaning of Vijaya Dashmi – the victory of truth, falls into place.

According to other legend King Daksha of Himalayas had a beautiful and Virtuos daughter Uma who had a wish to marry Lord Shiva. As a result she worshipped Lord Shiva and pleased him. Lord Shiva married Uma. Once Uma visited her parents to participate in a Yagna conducted over there, during that time King Daksha insulted Lord Shiva unable to bear the insults meted on her husband Uma
decided to end her life by jumping into the agnikund where she was united with the eternity. Henceforth she was also known as Sati. Sati was reborn again and peace was restored between her and parents. In that birth also she married Lord Shiva and lived happily thereafter. It is believed that Sati comes to stay with her parents for 9 days in every year and that time is celebrated as Navarathri.

One hypothesis states that in ancient times Kshatriyas debarred themselves from participating any warlike activities during monsoon season. Once monsoons got over they found the time to start afresh with their war activities. So before the start of their war journey these Kshatriyas worshiped different aspects of Devi for 9 days which is today celebrated as the Navratri.

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