Why Arranged Marriages are still a Prevalent Tradition in India

Arranged marriages have been an old-age tradition in India, where parents and other elder family members take the responsibility of the matchmaker. But  matrimonial sites in India have given a modern touch to the arranged marriages. Earlier the suitable bride or groom was selected by the family member with the consent of the parents and most of the time, the wed-couple-to-be remains unknown to each other till the wedding day. Hereafter, the tradition has been modified a bit and now the parents and the prospective bride or groom together search for the perfect on the apnahumsafar.com. Another benefit of this modern modification is that the bride or groom can be searched beyond the limited family network and within the same caste and religion. Thus, it can be said that this modification is a touch of both love and arranged marriages because the bachelors found each other on matrimony and matrimonial websites and decide to marry and the parents agree on it as both of them belongs to the same caste. Even in the 21st century, about 75% of the marriages are arranged due to its undoubted benefits.

Secured life – No parents want their child to marry someone who is  unsettled, uneducated and has no strong income sources to earn a living. It’s obvious that every parent chooses a partner for their  son or daughter who is just perfectly suitable to them.

Close to culture – Life after the marriage changes a lot and belonging to a different culture would make the things more complicated for the newlywed couple. For that reason, the marriage bureau sites come with different filters which also includes a filter for caste and religion. Generally, people are so specific to their traditions and culture that they don’t want to make compromise over it. Therefore, belonging to the same culture and tradition adds a plus point to arranged marriages.

Strong family connections – Indian arranged marriages are not about two souls moving into one, but, two families unite forever. Strong family connection supports the marriage to last forever as whenever the conflicts happen between the couple, both the families interfere and convenience them to stay together by clearing the misunderstanding.

Same values – Parents can look for a match on apnahumsafar.com with similar values as their
daughter or son. We at apnahumsafar.com consider all the above mentioned qualities to find your perfect life partner. Every Bride or Groom from us are undergone thorough background verification to lead our service successfully.

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apnahumsafar Punjabi matrimony possesses and offers an extensive range of profiles in accordance with the users’ requirements. Our apnahumsafar Punjabi Marriage bureau gives you the complete information of the wannabe Punjabi brides and Punjabi grooms with absolute transparency and helps you to choose the best amongst the best. Aspiring Punjabi brides or Punjabi grooms can directly add their profile, or the respective parents can add it on their behalf.

Important Things to select the Bride or Groom:Dear readers we want to educate you how to select perfect bride or groom. It’s not only for this website but we want to share our ideas with you.


Life is very precious and in the precious life, parents, siblings, spouse, children occupy important role. Among them, spouse plays prime role, who accompanies you for most span of life, as a companion, friend, confidential adviser, supporter, equal partner in joy and grief. Spouse is your contributor, well wisher, family builder, sincere guide, confidence boosting supporter, in any eventuality, sole family torch bearer and many more. Moreover, spouse is a part of one’s own soul. In fact, spouse is attached to the life beyond one’s life.

Age compatibility:Never choose or select a girl who is older than you. The bride should be at least 3 years below your good age. We may say love is blind. But love should not be blind with the age. It is one of the important aspects of selection of a bride to be your good wife.

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Family Though marriage is said to be a bond between two hearts, it is also a matter of two families, which get united by this single incident. So, it is always good to know about the family and members before accepting the groom. If the family members are well known for fighting or making issues with others, then it is tough to have peace of mind, even though the groom is better.

Habits and Manners:
If you are allergic to smoking smell and if your groom has that habit, then you are going to have a tough time after marriage. So, it is better to know about it even before accepting or be prepared. It should be better to inquire about his habits.

The Religion:
The religion brings lot of indifference between the couples. It is good to select a bride belonging to your own religion because of the faith in different Gods, the life becomes very difficult as the human beings are very sentimental to their own religions.

The caste:
We in India are good followers of caste system and inter caste marriages are generally discouraged by Indian families. They love to have their own girls from their own caste. If ignored, in future some people might raise a finger and talk about the caste to which the girl belongs.

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Understanding between the couples:It is one of the most important aspects of life that should exist between couples. If the understanding and adjustment fails the whole life is a failure. Therefore, try to choose or select women who have understood you well prior to the marriage.

Horoscope matching:
There are believers and non believers of astrology in our society. Those who believe in astrology should be look for the star match and the horoscope match in consultation with a reputed astrologer who will be matching the horoscope accurately. This is mainly matched to see the future of the bride and groom especially the heirs to the couple. Also a horoscope speaks many real qualities of bride. As the couples are considered as one soul after their marriage, the horoscopes of each other relates much to each other.

Income:

If you belong to a rich family and has the habit of spending more, then a person who earns less won’t be your choice. So, better know the income and expenditure of the family and plan whether this groom suits you are not, instead of holding his neck after marriage for money.

     Choosing your life partner is the most important and crucial decision of your life. Think with your head, not with heart. Not to be pity but harsh, not to be haste but with patience, while choosing the partner to make much dreamed married life, an ever memorable sweet life.

       We at apnahumsafar.com consider all the above mentioned qualities to find your perfect life partner. Every Bride or Groom from us are undergone thorough background verification to lead our service successfully.

Vadaai | vadai | best marriage bureau in jalandhar

Vadaai is end of the entire marriage ceremonies. The most pampered, beautiful, lively presence leaves her parents family and build a new family. This is very painful moment for bride's side.  Girl are considered the manifestation of goddess Lakshmi in India, While leaving the parents home, The bride practices certain rituals to keep wealth and prosperity intact in her house.
                                                       Vadaai is a marks the end of the marriage ceremony. It takes place
after the seven rounds and kanyadaan. It is a very emotional time for everyone.  bride and groom starts a new life with new dreams and new hopes. It is a new beginning for bride, Because she starts new life and build a new life with her husband and his family. She leaves her parent;s home with tears and sorrow. The bride;s father gives her hand to her husband and tells him to take care and protect her.

                                                       During vadaai when bride goes with her husband. She throws back
three handfuls of rice and coins over her head. This ritual is also done to keep the wealth intact in her home. The coin signing the retention of wealth and rice signifies the retention of health.
                                                    All elders gives blessing to the couple for successful married life.
At the end, The brother of the bride either go with her to drop her till her husband;s house or bid her good bye by pushing the car forward, While leaving coins are also thrown to ensure that no evil comes their way.

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HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE (part 2)

Marriage principles  are ways that can be followed by a couple to protect their marriage relationship. This principles can save a marriage disaster and Marriage is a relationship between two people.

1. Don't forget to do little things :- kiss on hand, leaving a sweet note on the mirror. you should         never  stop doing the  little things make sure to always make partner feel special and loved.

2. Appreciate him :- Always appreciate your partner. Appreciate every day for little things he does, like doing the washing up or making the bed. appreciate him and are grateful for all of the help he gives you of course,  you can also respond by doing things that make your partner appreciate you in return.

3. Surprise each other :- This is special moment for every spouse gift need not to be expensive. It is always the thought  that counts. A little something to create sweet memories.

4. Make time for each other :- If you care about your spouse and want to have a healthy and productive relationship, then  you should make sure to get time alone every week. Even if you have to sacrifice some time with friends or family.

5. Be attuned to your partner's moods :- Some time he or she need your attention the most.  Don't ignore that opportunity, if your partner is not ready to talk, then you don't have to push it and make things worse, but you should show that you will be there when he is ready and willing to open up..

6. Compromise for each other :- Learn to compromise and to make sacrifices for each other when it's necessary. Your relationship would not always easy and some time you need serious conversation about next decision. It's important that you and your spouse have strong communication and know what your needs are before you make a decision...

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HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

Marriage is a relationship between two people. Marriage principles  are ways that can be followed by a couple to protect their marriage relationship. this principles can save a marriage disaster.

1. RESPECT YOUR SPOUSE :-  If you want to have happy marriage life, then you have to   make     your spouse feel like equal you should respect your spouse's privacy.

2. TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN :- When your spouse is talking about his day or anything and when  you are having a real  conversation, put away your phone,make eye contact and listen.

3. GIVE PRIORITY TO YOUR SPOUSE :- Always make all your big decisions with your spouse in mind, making sure that you try to do what's best for you as well as for the person you are married to.

4. MAINTAIN STRONG COMMUNICATION :- Communication is the best key for best happy married life. You and your life partner should be able to talk graciously to each other about your thoughts, and maintain trust between partners to keep your marriage life strong and happy.

5. DON'T FORGET TO SAY "I LOVE YOU" :- Your partner always want to know how you feel and how much you love him - So look your partner's eyes and say " I LOVE YOU "

6. DON'T UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF TOUCH :- The physical connection can help  keep your relationship happy, strong and can make you feel close to each other, if you grow distant and don't sit near your partner, your partner when you're on the couch together, your relationship will grow distant too.....

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Reception | celebration after marriage

Marriages are always lavishly and grand celebration in India. Marriages are show the traditions and
culture on India. Marriages are full of fun and enjoy. There are too many rituals in India and they performed before and after marriage. Reception is also a rituals performed after marriage.
                            Reception is the ceremony done by groom family. Reception is done to introduce the bride to all the relatives and friends of groom's family. This ceremony is celebrated after marriage or after few days of marriages. In Hindu marriages , marriage is arranged by bride's family and reception is arranged by groom's family..

                           The reception ceremony is purely a society evolved practice. This ceremony has no connection with the rituals. In the reception ceremony all the relatives of the groom's family gang up and tap there feet hard to express their joy and happiness. It is an evening of fun, masti and full of enjoy.
                           All relatives enjoy this function. Light refreshment like different snacks  are served to the guests and relatives. After light refreshment and full of masti. They all go for dinner. Reception is first appearance of the bride and groom together.

                     
                             In reception both bride's and groom's families gathers together for the reception ceremony.In india marriage is regarded as the joining of two families who will support the couple in their new happy life .
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Vijayadashmi | Dussehra

Vijayadashmi is the celebration of victory. It marks  the end of war and the destruction of evil. It is a
festival of joy and glory. Vijayadashmi depicts Shri Rama's victory over ravana. Rama along with his brother Lakshamana, follower Hanuman and an army of monkeys fought a great battle for ten days to rescue Sita. On this day, Rama killed ravana the king of lanka. It is said that shri Rama worshipped shami tree before proceeding to Ayodhya. On this same day , the pandavas too, took out their arms, which they had kept in the shami tree and they revealed their identity after one year of incognito. This marked their preparation for the victorious war of kurukshetra.                                                                        

                                                                                 The festival of Navratri culminates on Vijayadashmi
. 0n this day a hug bonfire of the devil is made in northern part of India. Raam leela is observed with great enthusiasm. spiritually the ten headed Ravana represents 10 sense organs to be conquered.
                                                                      Vijayadashami is among the most auspicious days in
the Hindu calendar and comes as the finale of the nine - days festival Navratri. It signifies the victory of the good over the evil. Astrologically also this day is considered auspicious to undertake any new enterprise.
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Lord Ganasha | Ganesh chaturthi

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                                                                          The place where the idol is supposed to be
places is filly decorated with flowers, colorful papers.If you are planing to em-place the Ganesha  idol at home then first clean the place and decorate with flowers. No puja is complete without offering modak to Ganesha, this is know as his  favorite sweet, other dishes which are also offering like barfi, laddu, peda, sundal. People also believe that  during this period Ganesh ji visits the home of his devotees and bring prosperity and good fortune with him.
                                                                          The ganesh puja is performed in a special manner.
 All puja is performed with clean body and pure mind. So try to keep things simple, pure and focus on puja. During the puja offer all the food items to the lord Ganesha. The offering should include items like  modaks, laddu, coconet, coconet berfi, kheer and various fruits. His favorite food modak and you can't ignore this important sweet.
                                                                         This ceremony (puja) is performed in evening.
The idol of the lord Ganesha is carried to a sea or some water body for immersion. It is a very important part of puja  of Ganesh puja. The Ganesha idol is immersed in the water with some coin........apnahumsafar.com is best and free matrimonial, matrimony, Punjabi marriages, Punjabi matrimony, online matchmaking,shadi,  marriage bureau web site in jalandhar, jammu, Chandigarh, Punjab and India..................... 
                               

                  

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In India marriage is an enormous family affair. Families make sure that the other family matches their values, education, level and family status. because  of  this in India the reported divorce rate is extremely low. Estimated just one in 1000 marriages. Compared  ta a divorce rate of 44 % in America. APNAHUMSAFAR.COM IS BEST SITE IN INDIA FOR ARRANGE MARRIAGE, PUNJABI MARRIAGE, PUNJABI MATRIMONY, MATRIMONY, MATRIMONIAL, ONLINE MATCHMAKING, SHADI, AND BEST MARRIAGE BUREAU IN JALANDHAR, JAMMU, LUDHIANA, CHANDIGARH, PUNJAB AND INDIA.

                                                                            

                                                                                        Arrange marriages have always a debatable
subject. Many people have a pretty major misunderstand   of the topic of arranged marriages and in fact have a fairly negative attitude regarding. Many of the youth in India prefer arranged marriages. as it gives them the time and ability to enjoy their youth with out the constant worry and struggle of relationships that comes about in western culture. APNAHUMSAFAR.COM is best site for find best soulmate because AH is best site for MATRIMONY, MATRIMONIAL, SHADI,ONLINE MATCHMAKING, PUNJABI MATRIMONY, PUNJABI MARRIAGES, BEST MARRIAGE BUREAU IN JALANDHAR, JAMMU, PUNJAB

                                                                            

                                                                                       The arranged marriage is actually preferred
in many cases in India. and may even indeed be a healthy and happier form of love than the marriage experienced in the west comes as some what of a shock or at least a surprise to most. In India  a relationship between two people is some thing that is presumed to be fostered and created through out a life time of marriage. Whereas in the west people do not take the idea of marriage seriously until after they know the person and know everything about the person. A relationship
not bound by marriage is more easily broken for the smaller nuances in life.

                                                                             Arranged marriages in India are long drawn
out processes, where finalizing  the perfect match may take month or ever years.  In arranged marriage, the parents decide every facet of the process and the prospective groom and bride. Just show up at the prearranged  marriage. The fact that sticking to tradition and placing one's faith on the judgment of one's parents is not such a bad things, has been proved by the low divorce rate  among arranged marriage couples.

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